During a work conversation today, between myself and a woman I'll call X (because it sounds all mysterious).
X: Oh, I have a few kids, when I get together with my other friend, we just let them run wild while we invent cocktails.
Me: That's great! I'm just thankful my cat doesn't bother me while I'm drinking.
X: I had cats at your age too, but I had my first when I was a little older than you.
Me: Actually, I'm childfree by choice. I'm not going to have children.
X: If that's the right decision for you, then good for you! I'll bet your life is a lot quieter than mine!
Me: *stunned into silence*
Isn't it sad that this kind of positive response is stunning? Not even a bingo from this woman. X is now in my file of "okay parents".